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sam78
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  1. YOU’RE SIMPLY NOT HAPPY. This is a great place to start. Someone who is dating the right person consistently enjoys the relationship and feels a general sense of happiness. It’s not that they wouldn’t argue or be upset with their partner occasionally; even the healthiest couples do that. And it’s not there wouldn’t be times when a person in a good relationship would get down or struggle emotionally at some level. But generally speaking, a person who is in the right relationship is going to be happy. So if you find yourself wondering whether you should break up, frequently, then that’s a fairly clear sign that this may not be the best person for you. And those are among the reasons to break up with your boyfriend or girlfriend.

2.YOU’RE DOUBTING EVERYTHING—BIG TIME. It’s natural and healthy to evaluate a relationship at critical steps, but don’t ignore those nagging concerns that are trying to tell you something. As a general rule, voices inside you are there for a purpose—and they might be encouraging you of the good reasons to break up. Sometimes, something within us is whispering (or even screaming) that we’re dating the wrong person, presenting the signs of a breaking relationship. If this is the case for you, then one of the worst things you can do is to ignore that voice. Give it free reign and let it direct you to the conclusion you may have already come to.

3.YOU CAN’T FIGURE OUT A WAY TO WORK IT OUT. One of the greatest reasons to break up is simple: you can’t come up with any other solution. As you’re wondering whether or not to break up — consider asking yourself another question: ‘Can you two work it out, and do you want to? Is there anything about this relationship that’s worth salvaging? Even if you’re still unsure about your commitment to the relationship, try to pursue healthy conflict resolution. Talk about your concerns, voice your needs, and apologize for your role in the current situation. Listen to your partner and respect how he/she is feelingIf you can resolve—or at least calmly address—conflict, you can better assess the future direction of your relationship. But if you can’t keep your cool? It might one of the surefire reasons to break up with someone.

jakejim
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I suppose you are taking this too seriously. Sometimes you have to take things lightly. This works especially well for relationship problems. Yes, we stopped appreciating a lasting marriage .. but .. Is it that bad. I believe that people grow out of relationships as well as out of friendship. Why torture each other when you can just find a new partner on Maturetenders? Online sites for dating and communication is the best solution for those who decided to start looking for a new partner after a divorce.

kekakiva
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Yes, I agree with you. I know a few guys who met their girls on the Internet through a dating site.

cellinai
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