7 days her

Hey everyone,

I don’t usually post much, but I wanted to share something that actually helped me a lot recently. For the past year or so, I’ve been questioning things about myself — not in a dramatic way, just quiet thoughts that kept coming back. I started to realize I wasn’t really sure how I felt about my gender and where I fit in when it comes to social roles and expectations.

At some point, I came across a site called https://spectrum-id.com/ . I saw they had a gender role test, and I decided to give it a shot. To be honest, I didn’t think a test would help much, but it really gave me something to think about. The questions were thoughtful, and the results helped me make sense of why certain situations made me feel uncomfortable or out of place.

What I appreciated the most was that it didn’t feel like the test was trying to label me — it just offered a space to reflect. And beyond the gender role test, they also have other helpful ones: gender identity, gender dysphoria, and a transgender-related test. I tried all of them over time, and each one helped in its own way.

There are also lots of well-written articles on the site that explain different topics in simple terms. It’s a great resource, especially if you’re not sure where to start or just want to understand yourself a bit better without pressure.

If you're feeling unsure or just curious, I highly recommend checking it out. And honestly, it also helps to talk about it. Sharing your experience — even if it’s just with strangers on a forum — can make the whole thing feel a little less heavy.