I am interested in going to a sex club for the first time. We are both new to sex clubs and lifestyles. Due to personal circumstances, we are both only available on weekday afternoons. We are considering a couple of options. Club M4 has parties on Tuesdays, Wednesdays and Thursdays.

I went to Oasis last year with FWB too, and we had a good time. There were a few swingers there who, from the beginning in the main bar, behaved a little too gropingly. My friend was a younger hottie and the men pounced on her (and completely ignored their partners), though she was only there for public sex with me and didn't share until we found the perfect attractive pair of soulmates. We met a couple in the hot tub and chatted, and the ladies gave us blowjobs (not all the way - you can't go in the water), but they were also more exhibitionist than sharing. Did a bit of lounging around the pool. We ended up fucking on the third floor in one of the game rooms, and the same couple was doing the same thing. It's nice to watch each other cum. Decent swimming pool. Didn't see an organized "show" though.