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lisahamiltoneu
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Hi everyone hope you are all doin ok . I discovered my hubby of 27 years had been holding a secret all through are time together . He's addicted to porn ! Am totally deverstated and in disbelief as we had such a loving marriage great sex and 4 beautiful children . I have suffered depression last 4-5 years an he's been a marvellous husband taking care of me an the kids . I just can't get my head round why he needs to do this ur could of told me sooner . It's making me go down hi fast with my mental health an it's effecting our kids too . Our relationship did suffer an now I know why he was so distant at times . Now he's promised he has giving the porn up for good . But he's wanting me more , not a problem as I adore my husband. But is this the right thing for us to do have so much sex ? I mean it's gone from 2-3 times a week to twice a day . Am just afraid it's not helping his recovery by doin this . Am also afraid if I say no to sex he will result back to porn. He is saying he wants me even more because he has realised what he almost lost . Am trying to help him as him viewing oorn has made me feel so awful about myself, am not eating or sleeping properly. Plz help !!!

drikat
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I am in your exact position, would you be willing to exchange numbers or other communication ways to talk? I am struggling.

fastuntik
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Just accept it. Believe me; there's nothing you can do about his desire to watch porn or erotic pictures. This is a desire that is embedded inside almost every man. And you will not be able to eradicate it even with the strictest prohibitions or the most passionate sex. I know what I'm talking about. In the end, I just had to put up with it; otherwise, I was constantly suffering. Try watching porn; you might like it. Sometimes you can find interesting, exciting stories. I advise you to a good website with different categories sex4arab.xxx. But it is unlikely that you will be able to sleep peacefully again.